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The Road Not Taken

In some parallel universe, I’m on a stage, lights glaring down on me like I owe them money, and the crowd—yes, a crowd—hangs on to my every word. What am I doing there? Oh, nothing much, just living my best life as a full-time writer. You know, the kind of writer who crafts epic stories, changes lives, and still somehow has time to drink overpriced coffee in artsy cafes. Meanwhile, in this universe, I’m… well, let’s just say my reality looks a bit different.

This alternate life started with a plot twist: I walked away from the “safe” life. You know, the one with the steady paycheck, uninspired job, and soul-crushing predictability. I didn’t just walk—I bolted, with a dramatic flourish, straight back into the arms of my one true love: creative writing. Yep, I ditched the corporate grind to chase words. Risky? Absolutely. But who needs stability when you can have coffee-fueled panic over deadlines?

In this version of my life, my days are pure chaos—and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I spend mornings in coffee shops pretending to work (but really people-watching), afternoons unraveling plot holes that make no sense, and evenings reminding myself that eating instant noodles is “part of the creative process.” The best part? I teach workshops for aspiring writers, telling them all about how fiction can change lives—while secretly hoping it changes my bank account, too.

And speaking of money, let’s be honest: this path is no walk in the park. Some months, cheques hit like a blessing; other months, it’s bread and prayer. But here’s the thing—it still beats the nine-to-five monotony. Sure, my budget now looks like a bad joke, but the joy of building worlds and telling stories? That’s priceless.

Relationships? Let’s just say writing has made me that person—the one who psychoanalyzes everything. I see emotions everywhere, like some kind of feelings detective. It’s annoying, sure, but it’s also deepened my connections with the people around me. Turns out, when you spend your days creating flawed, complicated characters, you get better at dealing with real-life ones.

Of course, it’s not all sunshine and first-draft victories. There are days when inspiration is missing, deadlines loom like a bad decision, and I wonder if the “safe” path might’ve been, I don’t know, easier. But then I remember why I chose this: because even with the struggles, I wake up every day knowing I’m doing what I love.

This life isn’t perfect. It’s messy and unpredictable and often leaves me questioning everything. But it’s mine. It’s a life where I’m free—free to follow my passion, free to screw up spectacularly, and free to find joy in the chaos.


And sometimes, in those rare quiet moments, I wonder: what if this had been my reality all along? Would I still feel the pull of the “what ifs,” or is this, messy as it is, exactly where I was meant to be? Maybe, just maybe, this is freedom. Or at least as close as I’m going to get with a pen in one hand and a cup of cold coffee in the other.

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